The Universe Guru

“Some women are born knowing their place in the world, feeling comfortable in their own skin, and confident in navigating the world and setting boundaries.  That is hitting that genetic and conditioning lottery jackpot!  When they enter the room, people immediately know not to mess with them without any conscious effort on their part.  They have careers where their contributions are celebrated and well respected.  They have love and respect in their relationships.   Let’s call them our special unicorn women. 

I was not born that woman and I bet neither were you.  I was born a people pleaser and over-giver, and constant over-doer,  infected in the womb with many generations of over giving and people-pleasing in my lineage from both sides of the DNA line.  Confused with my worth and place in the world, trying to become worthy through servitude.  I was a girl with a big heart that often got stepped all over and taken advantage of.  The one that loved and gave so much, but somehow it was never enough. 

For most women, personal power, boundaries, a sense of self, and self esteem are hard learned skill sets.   For the special unicorn women born with unlimited confidence and self esteem, the principles in this book come naturally.  I have spent over four decades learning and embodying the principles I am about to share with you.  I have also helped hundreds of thousands of women do the same through my free online content, over 60 digital courses, and in person events. 

For the special unicorn women, these principles may seem harsh, mean, or even downright unloving.  They do not understand the psychology and energetic makeup of the womb-infected people-pleasers and over-givers.  Reading a book on boundaries doesn't suddenly undo generations of programming trapped in our DNA and cellular memory.  We must learn to “overcorrect” by being a savage or what most would call a “bitch” to land in the happy middle space of healthy relationships with self and others.

Sure, you can not be savage and simply move in tiny little steps towards setting boundaries and try very hard not to overgive.  Many people spend an entire life trying to get over their natural tendencies and deeply rooted habits.  I tried it the slow and “normal” way, but it didn’t work.  The truth is that it could never work because the people I was dealing with were savage.  They were the kind of savage with bad intentions.  The evil savage.  A dangerous mix.  The predators who use, manipulate, and energetically rape people. 

If you complain to friends and family members, you will soon get vanilla advice like, “state your boundaries,” or “have a heart-to-heart talk with them.”  You know better.  You can’t sit these people down and reason with them.  Conversations on boundaries end up with you being further manipulated and mind-fucked.  Being direct, clear, and using power poses make you seem like an even bigger idiot for trying. 

As you will learn in this book, savage requires savage.  Power requires Power.  What you hold in your hands is a manifesto of the savage knowledge that should have been rightfully yours at birth.  It was denied, stripped away, deconditioned out of you, leaving you with a wounded sense of self and nothing in your toolbox that works with the type of people you encountered in your life journey.  In fact, not being savage makes you a very attractive opportunity for those that like to prey on others. 

All your good intentions, desires, plans, and goals will be useless if your emotions can be hijacked by manipulators or people simply being envious of you.  You will notice the savage advice sprinkled all throughout this book.  Without that awakening, there is no way I would be where I am today.  My unusual success despite my upbringing has come with the integration of both my spiritual and human, embodying both masculine and feminine energies, at the intersection of divinity and savageness.  There is no easy way to say this.  You will have to shed the womb wounds and conditioning, and function with your full range to be a successful woman in today’s world. 

Here is what I want you to know:

Predators are more animal than human.  Because of this, we can never really “out predator” them.  Just like you wouldn’t need decades of therapy or forgiveness exercises if a wolf ate your chickens, because you have accepted wolves as predators, you need to see them for what they are.  People waste way too much time trying to get an apology, validation, or closure from animals in human bodies.  READ:  Predators don’t have access to the consciousness you are hoping to awaken in them.  They don’t have the moral compass that you do. 

When loving, kind, sincere, honest, compassionate people like you follow savage principles, they ditch the deeply rooted people-pleasing, over-giving, doormat DNA while still retaining all their love and kindness.  You won’t suddenly become evil or mean because of your divine part.  People who benefit from manipulating you may call you those names, but you will never become that. 

Adding savage power to your loving embodiment makes you stronger and more loving in your embodiment.  We need more kind hearted, loving people in positions of power.  Being a source of inspiration, power, and abundance on this planet is not only your birthright but also all of ours to witness through your embodiment.  We need loving, kind-hearted people to be as equally scary and dangerous to predators as they are to us and our children. 

I’m sure I have been called every name in the book.  It’s a small price to pay for the widely successful life I have created.  The energy that was freed up by letting go of parasites and leeches has been since used to create legacy love, unlimited energy and health, happy thriving relationships, and a God-led eight-figure business I am so damn proud of.   Meanwhile restoring my faith in humanity and divinity. “